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It’s time to hit the courts.

There are a lot of things I enjoy about playing tennis.  It’s fun, it’s outdoors, it’s a sport you can play for life, and the clothes.

I’m dead serious.  From a very young age, I’ve LOVED tennis outfits.  I like to keep my clothes simple, no lace or crazy patterns.  I’m there to play a sport not to go clubbing.

Below are some of my favorite old school photos.  It’s interesting, you could wear any of these clothes now (perhaps not the headbands) and they would look contemporary even though they are from the 70′s and the 80′s.  Classic.

Hubbell!

Hubbell! “The Way We Were” 1973

 

The late great Arthur Ashe.

 

Carrie Fisher in "Shampoo" 1975

Carrie Fisher in “Shampoo” 1975

 

Yannick Noah.  Big crush on him back in the early '80s.

Frenchman, Yannick Noah. Big crush on him back in the early ’80s. 

 

Bjorn Borg, my other big crush.

Bjorn Borg, from Sweden, my other big crush.

 

Steffi Graf, in the 80's,

Steffi Graf, in the 80′s.

 

John McEnroe in '79 looking salty.  As usual.

John McEnroe in ’79 looking salty. As usual.

Photo: Guardian UK

Chris Evert and Martina Navratilova. Good friends off the courts but had one of the best sports rivalries in history.

Chris Evert and Martina Navratilova. Good friends off the courts but had one of the best sports rivalries in history.

Photo: World In Sport.com

Other photos: Google

It’s a Ponte Weekend in Italy.

While most of my friends are out of town, I’m using this weekend to catch up on work and to get organized for next month.

I would love to spend some time in the country this weekend.  Instead, I will go to the park.

Fountain, Villa Borghese Park

Fountain, Villa Borghese Park

One of my favorite parks is Villa Borghese.   If you are visiting Rome, it’s a great place to go for some peace and quiet.

Buon weekend a tutti!

Me:  “What are you doing this weekend?”

Friend: Cambio di Stagione.”

Yes, it’s that time of year… we have to swap out our Winter clothes for our Spring/Summer clothes.

My friends in Italy who are fortunate to have enough closet space to avoid under-the-bed boxes, still do Cambio di Stagione.  Clothes that need to be dry-cleaned are dropped off.  Boots and other other Winter shoes are taken to the cobbler.

My closet is tiny.  I guess one benefit is even if I could afford to buy the clothes I want, I would have no place to put them.

As I get ready to Cambio di Stagione, I dream about more closet space.

Aerin Lauder's Manhattan Apartment Closet

Aerin Lauder’s Manhattan Apartment Closet

Photo: ELLE DECOR

Closet designed by Lee Ledbetter

Closet designed by Lee Ledbetter

Photo: Architectural Digest

Closet designed by Jodi Foster

Closet designed by Jodi Foster

Photo: Jodi Foster

I was reading one of my favorite interior design/lifestyle blogs, FROM THE RIGHT BANK, and Ally’s post about making time for your passions really struck a chord with me.

It’s important to recharge and to be inspired, especially if you work in a creative field.

I know in our culture (American) we have this thing about “not wasting time.”  We live to work and don’t take vacations.  For some, they feel pressured not to use their few measly vacation days because they don’t want to be seen as slackers. When you have a CEO barely taking maternity leave, it sends a very clear message, “You have no life outside this office/job. Don’t even think about taking a vacation.”

I know many people who work for themselves and they brag constantly about NEVER taking day off.

I used to do that.  I felt guilty if I wasn’t always working or doing something “productive.”  I was going to out work everyone and move up that ladder.

I don’t know if it’s getting older, moving overseas, or getting completely screwed over at a former job, but I don’t think it’s great to never take a day off.

If I go to a museum one afternoon how is that wasting time?  Maybe a color in a Caravaggio would be perfect for a client’s dining room.  Maybe that painting will inspire me in a way that won’t be clear for years.

For my mental and physical health, my creativity, and my soul I must waste more time.

I love the Bertrand Russell quote in Ally’s post.  “The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.”

I agree.

Last week my friend Courtney and I went to see the new Helmut Newton exhibit at the Palazzo delle Esposizioni.

There are two hundred photos covering three legendary books by Newton.  This blockbuster show runs until July 21st.

Newton forever changed fashion photography and is considered one of the most influential photographers of the modern era.   Many copy his style, but few have his talent.

It was incredible to see all these iconic photographs in person.  This one was shot for VOGUE in 1975.

Le Smoking

Le Smoking

Photo: Vogue.com 

My friend and I left the show very inspired. Newton was passionate about life and his work.  He was shooting until the day he died at age 84.

His first book of photography wasn’t published until he was 56 years old.   By Hollywood standards that’s close to 100.

I’ve worked for years in culture that was/is obsessed with age and making it. I had friends in L.A. who started getting Botox in their 20′s and I’m not talking only about actresses.

It’s hard to be in that world and not lose your sanity.  Once I moved to Rome, it was a little easier.  However, there were times I still woke up in the middle of the night in a panic because I haven’t “made it” yet and time is running out.  I thought, “I’m done. It’s a wrap.”

Last week I walked out of that exhibit thinking,”later for that nonsense, I’m just getting started.”

Buon weekend!

I’m seeing a lot of orange for Spring.

I do like the color but I don’t have any of it in my home and very little of it my wardrobe.  I went to Syracuse University. Trust me, I have worn my share of orange in the past.

SU!

SU!

Photo: Syracuse.com

Every time I jog past the Hermès store on Via Condotti, I sigh.  One day.

It’s time to bring some orange back into my life.  For my home, I’m thinking pillows with a pop of orange. Like this Moroccan style one from D.L. Rhein.

D.L. Rhein Mocorran Pillow

D.L. Rhein Mocorran Pillow 

Photo: D.L. Rhein

I like how subtle the orange is in this room.  I will buy some fresh orange flowers to help brighten up these rainy, cloudy, March days.

Modern Orange

Modern Orange

Photo: Martha Stewart.com

For my closet, a pair of Repetto Ballerinas would be perfect.  I’m trying to add more color to my wardrobe.

Orange Repetto

Orange Repetto

Photo: Repetto

I did see an orange wrap dress in a store window the other day.  Hmmmm, that might be too big of an orange commitment for me!

A new Pope was elected this week.  We still don’t have a Prime Minister.  It’s kind of nuts but I digress.

The determined sun fought its way through today’s stubborn clouds and after a week of horrendous weather, we finally had a few hours of sunshine.  The angels sang.

Perhaps it’s a little early for Spring cleaning (the horrible weather is scheduled to return on Sunday afternoon) but I would like to get started on some projects this weekend.

Thoughts of Spring brought me to the photo below.

How lovely is this space designed by L.A. based, British born, Peter Dunham?

A Beverly Hills Family Room Designed by Peter Dunham

A Beverly Hills Family Room Designed by Peter Dunham

Photo: Architectural Digest

We had a chance to visit Peter’s showroom during Kathryn M. Ireland’s Design Bootcamp.  His showroom was filled with beautiful things and Peter was very charming.

I think those chairs need to be in my home.

Buon Weekend!

We had some sunny and warm weather here in Rome on Saturday (only to get slammed with more rain yesterday, today, and apparently for the next three days).

On Saturday all the outdoor cafes were packed.  Everyone was rocking their sunnies and most of the heavy winter coats were packed away.  Of course, some Signore insisted in wearing their furs as it’s only mid-March.

During the Winter I give my nails a break.  With the change in weather, it’s time for a professional mani/pedi.

Bella Ballerina

Bella Ballerina

Photo: Chanel

My favorite neutral is Chanel’s Ballerina.

This color looks great on almost any skin tone.  That’s one reason why so many manicurists and beauty editors rave about it. Another reason is the quality.  Yes, it’s more expensive than the drugstore brands, but the polish doesn’t streak, lasts a long time, and is formaldehyde-free, toluene-free, and DBP-free.

One coat is very sheer.  Two coats gives you a little more pink, but not too pink.   It’s a sophisticated, yet fun color.

I know many people like to wear outrageous colors on their hands.  For me, it’s not practical. On my hands, I like to keep it simple and stylish. Ballerina is everything.

Seven years ago I traveled to Rome for the second time.

The first time was a revelation and I fell hard for this crazy city.  It didn’t make sense.  Nobody in my family is Italian and I was not an Italophile by any stretch.

I loved London, Paris, and Amsterdam.  When I was in junior high and high school I just KNEW I would live in Paris or London one day.   I wasn’t thinking about Rome or Italy despite living in a town called Verona .

I thought maybe I had responded to Rome that way because of what was, or wasn’t, going on in my life at that moment.   I had to find out why that one trip had unsettled me so much.

I returned the following year and took a short trip to Florence and Positano.

ARLENEhillside

The view from my terrace.

It was a pain in the butt to get from Rome to Positano.  First the train to Naples (not bad), then the train to Sorrento (an hour on a local train with many stops), and then finally a bus to Positano.

I walked down the steep hill, followed by a million steps, to reach my hotel.  Once I stepped into the room and opened the large French doors, I saw that view.   My heart skipped a beat.  It was so beautiful it felt unreal, like a movie set.

There is a great hiking trail/path way up in the mountains, Sentiero degli Dei/Path of the Gods.  Early one morning, I went up the mountain.

It was quiet. I saw two German tourists hiking and that was it.  For the first time in years, my mind wasn’t racing a mile a minute, overwhelmed by the things I had not accomplished.

That walk changed everything.

I realized I had to make some serious changes in my life for my mental and physical health.  I wasn’t sure how at that time.

Eventually, I figured it out and moved to Italy two years later.

Buon weekend!

What a week.

Just when you think Italian politics couldn’t be more confusing or bizarre, they are.   I have no idea what is going to happen now.  Maybe we’ll have new elections.

The Pope said good-bye yesterday.  The city is packed with tourists who came to see him for the last time.  Cardinals are flying in for the conclave and there are journalists in town from all over the world.

Work-wise, things were hectic. I’m not sure how it’s Friday already.

Yesterday, Domenico and I drove up to Tuscany to visit the job site and to meet with our client who flew in from Germany.  Normally, we would stay overnight but we decided to make it a day trip and left Rome at 6:30 a.m.

It was a very long day.   At one point my brain said, “BASTA!” and refused to cooperate.  It was around the time I was asking the contractor questions in Italian and then translating his answers into English.

On the drive back home, all I could think about was taking a long shower, getting in my PJs, and then watching Law and Order SVU reruns on Fox Crime (I have a thing for Detective Stabler).

I wish I had a shower like this:

A shower at MonteverdiUnfortunately, I do not.

The shower in the photo was designed by Ilaria Miani for Monteverdi.   Monteverdi is a group of rental villas and a hotel in the small village of Castiglioncello del Trinoro in Tuscany.

Stunning.  I hope to check it out sometime later this year.

In the meantime, Stabler and I will be relaxing this weekend.

Buon Weekend!

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